Former “Real Housewives of New York City” star Bethenny Frankel has revealed that her mother, Bernadette Birk, has passed away.
On April 20, Frankel posted on Instagram to share that her mother died after fighting lung cancer. The post included several pictures of Birk throughout her life. In the post's caption, Frankel mentioned that her mother “was complex, suffering, isolated, and had demons.”
“She was the most beautiful woman you've ever seen, who left her abusive home as quickly as I ran from mine,” wrote Frankel. “She was smart, funny, cultured, and wise — yet struggled with a lifelong eating disorder, alcoholism, abuse, smoking, and self-destruction. Despite not being ready to be a mother, she loved me and I have lovely memories of her.”
Frankel mentioned that while her late mother “taught [her] food, wit, culture, and strength,” she had a hard childhood. However, she believed any difficulties she faced “made [her] strong, tough, a survivor who is able to handle anything.”
Frankel also shared that she and Birk “reconnected so [her] daughter [Bryn] could know and love her.” According to the former Bravo star, her late mother “adored Bryn.”
“Goodbye mom, Bonnie, Bernadette. You did the best you could and you are free and at peace. I miss my mommy as a little girl and I am grateful for my daughter consistently pushing to meet her and myself for re opening old wounds for their relationship,” wrote Frankel.
She also encouraged her followers to “call, connect with, or hug someone you have a complicated relationship with today.”
Several Bravo Star Shared Their Support in the Comments Section
Several Bravo stars shared their support for Frankel in the post’s comments section. For example, “Real Housewives of Orange County” personality Vicki Gunvalson wrote, “I’m sorry for your loss. This was beautifully written. Peace be with you ❤️.”
“Real Housewives of Miami” star Guerdy Abraira also shared she appreciated Frankel’s post.
“Thanks for being candid and not sugar coating your relationship like many do. She seemed like a queen to me! My condolences,” commented the RHOM star.
In addition, former “Real Housewives of Dallas” personality Dr. Tiffany Moon wrote that she was touched by Frankel’s remarks about her late mother.
“What a wonderfully written tribute to your mother. I’m sorry for you loss. Thank you for being so open about your complex relationship with your mother, and I’m so glad you reconnected with her so she could have a relationship with Bryn. Sending you all love ❤️,” shared Moon.
